Birth Plan

(Apollo Creed acting as Rocky's Doula)

Every boxer goes into the ring with a plan that lasts just as long as it takes to get hit. Then suddenly there’s a new plan.

We sat down with our Doula the other night to discuss writing out a “Birth Plan” so the three of us at least, if not the Dr. and nursing staff know what Corrie wants, and doesn’t want. For the most part our plan is simply, “we want a baby”. The rest is gravy.

She does not want to be asked if she wants drugs. If she wants them she’ll ask. If possible we want to spend time with our daughter before they take her away to do their tests. If possible, I’ll cut the cord. If possible she’ll avoid being hooked up to an IV right away. Of course if things change, the plan changes.

What we are coming to understand is how important the nurses are to the whole experience. The Dr. only comes in towards the end, so you want the nurses on your side. A mean nurse can really take the bloom off an otherwise beautiful day. I’m thinking of bribing them with fudge.

Regardless, it was good to sit down and talk through all the possible decisions that we’ll make at a time when both of us might be a bit tired, or otherwise engaged. It also is nice to know that our Doula understands us a bit better, and can get an idea of what might help, and what really won’t.
That, and she was treated to a fine home cooked meal, and a surprisingly well-behaved dog.